Sunday, January 18, 2009
Special Report: How to be Wildly Successful with Women
By nature, you as a man, are genetically programmed to attract and mate with women. Unfortunately, we have evolved culturally and socially to the point where we have forgotten how to attract the opposite sex.
The rules and customs established by our religious and social institutions that once guarded our civilization, have become barriers to harmony between the sexes.
We are even losing the natural ability to flirt and create attraction like our fathers did due to the restrictive climate of political correctness.
This explains why a simple thing like approaching a woman strikes terror in the soul of most men for fear of being perceived as a "player" or "pick up artist". Instead, we have to follow the rules, play all the roles, and attach labels to our every action; "girlfriend", "boyfriend", "dating" "seeing somebody". Excuse me while I puke.
There is no doubt the media has brainwashed us to believe that we have to beg women for their company, that we have to "ask" a woman out, and only then the courting process can begin. You think I'm exaggerating? Have you seen the movies, commercials and sitcoms on TV depicting men as weak wusses, supplicating women for love, sex, advice etc....? Yeah, according to most of the video and print media, men are weak and stupid, but women are strong and smart.
Here is a sickening thought: there is a prevailing myth in our "modern" society that if a woman "gives" sex to a man, he is "taking" something away from her. What utter nonsense! If you are talking about rape that is one thing, but sex between two consenting adults is far from a crime. This assumption is just one of many reasons relationships between the sexes have deteriorated resulting in colossal frustration and too little sex for both men and women.
Okay, by now you're asking: "but HOW do I avoid being that spineless chump the media loves so well, and become that strong Apha Man all women want and lust after?"
It's like learning any skill. It begins with education, changing your mindset and belief system. Remember, we have been socially programmed to believe that sex is evil. We must first delete all of that brainwashing and replace it with the truth about female psychology and sexuality.
The truth is women by nature are very sexual, even more so than men, but those in power, for their own gain, have suppressed that nature for thousands of years.
The good news is no amount of social conditioning can override the natural sexual instincts of women. Most women will be attracted to a powerful Alpha Male, have sex, and reproduce.
3 Steps to Develop Confidence and Attract Beautiful Women into Your Life Now:
1. Stop Believing that Women are Better than You.
Society will have you believe that women are these mysterious all-wise, all-knowing creatures whose beauty we have to worship day and night, because they are on such a higher plane than we are. As long as you entertain this stupidity, you will never be successful with women. It says just one thing about you: you are a weak pathetic wussbag!
This doesn't mean that you disrespect a woman, on the contrary, by not being needy, it shows that you are at least her equal, and that you have the qualities to be an asset to her life and that being with you will be an exciting adventure.
2. You MUST be Supremely Confident.
Confident that you can approach any woman without fear or hesitation. Confident in any situation from the first meeting to having sex. When you attain this state, she will have confidence in YOU as a strong leader who has the ability to give her what SHE needs: romance and great sex!
3. You MUST Communicate with Her on a SEXUAL Level.
By sexual, I don't mean making sexual comments, telling dirty jokes, and being sleazy. Women hate that stuff! Countless studies by behavioral scientists show that most sexual communication is nonverbal. This is quite observable in the animal kingdom. Animals don't have what we consider developed speech and language, but they do have very strong body language and highly developed senses-especially smell.
They utilize all these attributes to attract mates and reproduce by way of natural mating rituals. Humans are not all that different except that since our brains are more complex and evolved, our mating rituals are now far more verbal and socially directed. This creates all kinds of obstacles to intimacy because it triggers the more highly developed part of a woman's brain (neocortex) so that it causes her to use logic rather than emotion ( "you're not my type", "I don't know you that well", "what do you do for a living")...etc.
We can bypass all that social crap by using good eye contact, smiling, body language, sensual speech patterns and tone. This kind of communication is very natural to women, but NOT to most men! Ah,Ha! Now we are getting somewhere!
Unless you have been living in one of those Pacific islands deserted after WWII, you may be familiar with something called the seduction community. It is an industry comprised of men who have developed systems and methods to attract women.
Some call themselves pua's (pick up artists) or players, etc. It has become a fairly notable phenomenon, producing online publications, CD's, DVD's, seminars and featured on radio and TV talk shows. There is even one cable show named "The Pick Up Artist." It seems that these guys have come along at the right time to fulfill a need and put an end to the castration of the American male.
So, now there is no excuse, fellas. You CAN meet, seduce and enjoy the women you desire, without fear or guilt induced by your favorite TV show.
One Publication I HIGHLY Recommend is:
How to Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander:
This is an excellent introduction to the art of attracting women.
It covers everything from attraction, looking your best, eliminating fear, effective body language, dating tactics, and a whole lot of other great stuff that will elevate you above the crowd of men who just don't have a clue.
OK, guys. That's it for now. Stay tuned as we review more resources to improve your game with the ladies and become that Alpha Man all women want.
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